Fix Your Marriage and Gain Back The Love Of Your L
A few years ago my marriage was in big trouble and I had no idea what to do about saving my marriage. This might be the same spot your in. Does your husband or wife tell you were through? Except you know deep down you can save your marriage, I believe what I discuss with you next might change your life for the better and guide you to saving your marriage.
Who would of thought, certainly not me, that my wife wasn't happy in our marriage any longer. Like so many others, I believed our marriage would last forever and our love for each other would always see things through. I took our relationship for granted and maybe I didn't see the warning signs.
All the hurt and anger I was feeling are challenging to describe. You might be feeling something like that right now and if so, I assume you know what I mean. My only thoughts, were what was I going to do seriously right now that could aid me in saving my marriage. What could I do though? After all, I thought everything was fine.
I was starting to think that divorce was inevitable but some little tips I found slapped some reality into me. Some little bits of info that took me by surprise, and showed me why I was doing it all wrong. Instead of trying to hold on I should have been stepping back, because the more I was pushing the more she was pulling away.
Then, I needed to get a hold of the irrational emotional state which had aided in causing more bad than good which are mistakes that most of us make that just makes that much more of a problem. I needed to suck it up so to speak, and put myself in a more positive place while proving my ability to remain calm, show confidence and control. With the little bit I had learned at first, I was able to move forward positively towards saving my marriage.
This discovery is not only the start of fixing my marriage but building something more than just a marriage, a relationship between us like we never thought possible looking back. Considering where we were.. The amazing thing about it was it worked even though she had originally wanted to end our marriage! The key though was my being willing to see the marriage in a completely different way, almost as if it was a 3rd person, separate from the two of us. And I had to be willing to take quick and powerful action right away! Some of this may seem counter intuitive to what you would normally do at first, but trust me, it is not. This stuff works!. You can read more about this approach here - Help Saving Your Marriage