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TODAY'S LOVE QOUTE................God help the man who won't marry until he finds a perfect woman, and God help him still more if he finds her.........................BENJAMIN TILLETT.

TOP TEN ROMANTIC IDEAS.

1) Yourself!

2) Giving a backrub.

3) Choose a book in which you are both interested, fiction or nonfiction. Read a new chapter each night before bed. This cozy tradition will allow you to spend some quality time together.

4)Taking a bubble bath together.

5) Having a romantic dinner.

6) Turn off the TV.

7) Have a scavenger hunt. Write a few poems and hide them around the house. Each poem should be a clue to finding the next one. Make sure the final clue lands your man someplace you want to end up for the entire evening.

8) Recreate your first date together. What were you wearing? Where did you go? Do you remember what you talked about? Spend the evening reminiscing and reflecting on how far you’ve come as a couple.

8) Cuddling together.

9) Call him at work and say: "Hello handsome! Are you free tonight?"

10) Always have tapes of romantic music in your car. This hits a nerve even though he may pretend he can't hear the music.

WOMEN WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT YOUR MEN.

- If he is not looking at you then he is probably not listening.
- He can't read your mind. Dont expect him to pick up your non-verbal hints. so say it out LOUD.
- They like to be treated like kings and feel in charge. So girls just make their day.(we all know who is really in charge).
- Men love women who are not afraid to show that they love sex.
- Men feel rejected when you reject their sexual advances, don't just say no he is really reaching out for love.
- Please respond to your mens love-making or he will feel like a failure, unless he is CRAP then you need another man.
- They hate to be wrong, and most of all they hate it when a woman knows that they are wrong before they know it themselves.
- Men assume when you start crying you won't stop, so when you are upset, tell your man exactly what you want from him.

PSSSSSSSS Have you noticed that some girls just can’t help self destructing their relationships? Even when they have a great guy who treats them well, they start committing relationship sins that are sure to lead them to a cold and lonely destination. One major relationship crime is smothering.Listed below are top 5 mistakes women make:

1)Threatening to end the relationship when your angry.

2) Women cover up their excellence and competence.

3)Not involving him in decisions.

4)Putting your best towards your education/career and giving your partner the leftovers.

5) Sharing how you feel too early.

AND these are five ways to correct them:

1) Always strive to do your best for him; even when you are tired or stressed out. Stress is never an excuse to mistreat him.

2) Be determined to succeed as a partner.If you believe in your relationship, then fight for it. Don’t let minor things come between you.

3) Commit yourself to doing whatever it takes to become a great partner. A great partner will always do more for the relationship than a good partner will.

4) Make him feel special. Treat him as if he were a King. If he abuses the royal treatment, then drag them to therapy. lol

5) Share WITHHOLDS its a great way of clearing the deck with him on a regular basis so that little conflictual issues don't pile up. This helps you and him to stay current with each other on both the negative and positive issues in your relationship.

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