Understanding a Woman of Man

For those of you that know me well, run! Just kidding.

I promise not to mention any names ok. To be honest with you I have been secretly studying articles and MANY books about men and women for over 20 years. What have I learn't? NOT A LOT! I have learn't more from the in's, out's, up's and down's of living more than anything else.

I disagree with most books and article's that I have read including: "Men are from Mars and Women from Venus". That to me is a lie.

Why?

Woman came from the rib of a Man that is NOT mars or venus. That is close and internal. That is why it AFFECTS YOU BOTH SO MUCH.

This is despite you both living and dancing daily around each other's feelings, needs and emotions. Like a fruit bowl full of delicious fruit, it soon becomes a battle for survival of the minds, who gets most of the good fruit without making it too obvious.

Here is my novice approach to love and relationships: I believe there are essentially FOUR TYPES and categories of men and women. First LOVE IS NOT SEX! G-D IS LOVE!

Let's begin with the men:

1. THE FLESHLY MAN: He just wants flesh at ANY cost and is willing to pay any price including the strip joint or streets at night. In fact the fleshly Man is down-low blind to what is a Woman or a Man. He sees his desires above anyone else's; and satisfaction is defined as whatever he finds or wishes.

2. THE SPIRITUAL MAN: This Man is beaten and burnt out from flesh. Now he is being directed NOT with his flesh but with his spiritual heart, soul and mind. This Man is still hot and very steamy, but he is willing to wait, by-pass or turn down the offers he gets of fleshly or carnal women. This Man is also eager to get going and start MULTIPLYING as found in Genesis 1:28. He knows obedience, affliction and spiritual warfare. So love will come and it lasts forevermore.

3. THE LYING MAN: This man has listened and studied women to a tee. He is a playa and he knows that LISTENING and LAUGHING with any woman attentively he is half way there. You can find this man of ANY color religiously in the night-clubs, bars, daily walking the mall, or gym where women pass or congregate.

4. THE YES MAN: This man is almost a 'geek' for love. He is not use to dealing or chatting with many women. This Man is essentially a loner and occupies his time with self. So when he realizes that his computer or web cam is no longer working and the magazine shelves are empty, or piling high, the first woman that appears interested he says YES! From that point onwards all he ever says is yes to ANY woman that is willing. Women hold your laughter, easy on the teeth, there are many women of this category also.

Now for the above categories as women:

1. THE FLESHLY WOMAN: She just wants cash or flesh at ANY cost and is willing to hustle any man, woman or girl at the strip joint, bar, street corner, workplace, PC, even your husband, Pastor or brother. She is DEEP in mind and thought just like an ex-con released from jail. She dates and has sex for profit, nothing else matters!

2. THE SPIRITUAL WOMAN: Like the Man this Woman is trying to be directed NOT with her flesh but with her spiritual heart, soul and mind of the Bible. This Woman of Proverbs 31 is still, hot and very steamy. Yet she is willing to wait and by-pass or turn down the offers she gets of fleshly or carnal men. This Woman is really watching your words and spiritual knowledge at heart. She adores a strong, praying brotha. Men still have to be careful of such a woman, "IF" she is expecting you to satisfy ALL her needs of cash, emotions, weak or strong daily. Watch out especially for the ones that can spell, spa, hair, beauty, but NOT kitchen, clean, house or car. Afterall, ladies IF you do not or CANNOT do it, why expect it? The spiritual Woman will know that submitting to her Man of God is divinely chosen and ordained. She is the Rib and He is the body forevermore.

3. THE LYING WOMAN: O boy, have you got all day? This Woman runs rings round any lying Man. She DOES NOT even listen to what a Man is saying. Her ears is naturally a straight tunnel with no end, tissues, cells, wax or hair. This Woman knows what men like of "sight". She is a BIG time playa and she shows or tells you ANYTHING you want to see or hear if the price is right. You can find this Woman of ANY color, religiously in the night-clubs, bars, daily walking malls, resturaunts or or Health Clubs for men and women. Nowaday's one call and she will be at your house, disguised as the prophetess or the 'masseur'. This Woman will even massage, play and take woman-to-woman. No neighbour, Man, teen or Pastor is safe around such a Woman.

4. THE YES WOMAN: Like the Man, this Woman is almost a 'geek' for love. She is not use to dealing or chatting with many men. This Woman is essentially a loner and occupies her time with close family or self. So when she realizes that her computer, book, web cam, family or career is no longer working up passion or an intimate sweat, the first Man that invites her out with heart, she replies: YES! From that point onwards, all she ever says is yes, as long as he NEVER CHANGES AN INCH. If that Man changes one thing all contact will be immediately terminated! She will then, return back to her geek life love affairs, alone in her apartment, house or room.

Watch out for the increasing WEB-CAM group and the choir foot-stompimg, praise-athon women of all ages that boost the sales of hand-held machines. Men, her loud screams could well have been inner-thoughts of her machine.

In closing, I just read a very interesting article about 'understanding women', that placed a spiritual response in me to reply:

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I agree that many women are LAUGHING at the world and men. Why? Just take a look at the billboards of promotion in ANY LANGUAGE and what do you predominantly see, men or women?

Women, are deeply AWARE that once upon a time Man ruled the world, but not any more. Well at least not in the carnal, worldly, promotional, advertising, divorce courts or child support arena's.

After over twenty years of studying women for myself I believe more to the key is this:

1. Yes women generally are manipulative and they require the Man to fix ALL their needs, without ANY sincere thanks or apologies.

2. If the Man is stupid to do ALL that a woman needs she will only replace you when you can no longer attend to her whims, wants and needs. So get smart or prepare!

3. The way to ANY womans heart is 'balance' of understanding, romance, provision and spirituality.

4. Be 'creative' NOT 'routine'. If a woman can read you what time you get home, and what you will do for her, everyday, guess what? You are BORING!

5. Yes LEAD THE WAY, but know how to be strong and weak with your woman when she needs you too. The weak side does NOT work well for me. Men like to be the macho, strong FIGURE of the relationship or marriage. I prefer, a two-way-street, don't ask or expect ANYTHING Man or Woman of your partner that you FAIL to do yourself. I.e. Don't expect the American Dream off the back of ANYONE if you have FAILED to earn the bread, respect, or keep faithful.

6. It is REALLY hard for a Man to fight to earn the bread, bacon or soya for the household, and then because your woman or wife is NOT feeling ya...you have to sit by her side, and don't move babe. Or ask her a MILLION TIMES: "what's wrong babe?" and you may just get one short answer or SILENCE, and you still cannot move. If you dare move, then that will be it, she will scream: "YOU DO NOT LOVE ME OR CARE". Then it will be bad news for you tonight.

Men if you can learn to be humble, spiritual, weak and strong with your woman and to LEAD when she is strong, you got it going on.

IN HIS PEACE.

CyberRev - PlainTruth911

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