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Do You Have A Crush?
There might be a moment in life when you fall in love with someone without realizing your feelings toward them. You carry on living a simple friendship and you don't even notice that the simplest thoughts you have and the smallest actions you do may be more than enough to show you your heart beats for someone.
I've had many friends who thought they were behaving normal with a person from the opposite sex but then, after listening to me, realized they were in love. Now they are very happy couples.. some of them broke up, but anyway if you wonder why you never really liked someone, it might be because your heart wants a person your mind refuses, and that's why you never realized it. Now of course, it could be also because you never found the right person yet.
So.. to find out what your true feelings are, all you have to do is to read the rest. You can put a person in your mind while reading and see if your behaviors match with these ones, or you can just keep on reading normally...and who knows? Maybe someone will pop in your head!
P.S: If only 1 or 2 of these things happen to you.. then it doesn't mean anything. But if lots of things match, then you'd better hurry up and go look into this somebody's eyes to be sure of your flame!
Have Fun!
1-You say to yourself you like someone as a friend but you wait impatiently to talk to them and when this opportunity arrives, you wait for them to do the first step and talk to you..
2-When you are sad or angry, you feel like you wanna share your problems with them but then you think they're not the one you should talk to ('cause you already have a bestfriend or because this person is from a different sex..)
3-When they ask you if you are in love, the first thing that comes to your mind is their face and then you say: "No..not yet!"..
4-When you hear a song they told you they love, you think about them while listening and you just feel like calling them to tell them they're putting it on the radio..
5-When they talk to you about personal stuff, you feel like you wanna talk to them about your personal feelings too but you suddenly stop because you feel that if you give them that much they'll think you have a crush on them.. Childish thought I know! But it happens!
6-On MSN Messenger or Yahoo or whatever, you block them when they're online just to show them you can go offline even if they're online, or to show them you didn't even notice they were online. But actually, if you really don't care about them, why do you care about showing them you don't?
7-You do everything to let this person run after you..
8-You told them about a song you really hate! They told you they loved this song!... After few days, you hear the same song and all you find to say is: "Yeah.. this song is not bad at all!"... and then after a week : "Wow! This song is one of my favorite songs!" ..So?
9-You wake up after dreaming of them. You remember the dream with every detail which is very rare!
10-You wake up after dreaming of them. You don't remember what the dream was about but all you can remember is that they were in this dream and you still remember exactly the feeling you had while dreaming.
11-They come and tell you they have a crush on someone. The first person you think might be the crush is YOU!
12-You're glad when you're talking to them, but you still feel there's something missing. It could be you're happy with the friendship but you want more! Maybe love. (If the girl is sexy, you guys might want sex. If you don't, that's a great sign! If you do, you haven't asked her for sex yet means you respect her and that's a good start ;) )
13-If they talk to you differently than the usual, or if they just say a "hi" without a smile, or even don't talk to you at all just for ONCE, you imagine and create thoughts in your mind.. for ex, that they're mad about you or don't wanna talk to you again, or that they're really bored with you and can't bare your company. You even start thinking: "Was I wrong about something with him/her.. Have I done something bad?" when in fact you haven't done anything wrong to them. But it's just that you refused the idea that this person is starting to ignore you.
14-When they tell you something special, you think they're trying to make you fall in love with them
15-When they ask you some special kinds of questions, you think they're trying to make you admit you have a crush on them
16-You think all day long about a sentence they told you.
17-You create a whole conversation with them.. a virtual conversation created only in your mind.
18-You're glad when they tell you a secret, and you feel proud because they chose you to trust.. but then they go and tell secrets to someone else too (from the same sex you are).. that's when you feel something weird like jealousy..
19-You refuse hearing bad words about them.. and you defend this person when people say bad things about them..
20-You simply ask yourself: "Could it be I have a crush on him/her?"
21-Sometimes sexual attractions can turn to emotional ones.
22-Your friends try to think who's the person who fits best on you... the name you wish they would say is "....." the name of the one you were thinking about while reading all these ideas.
23-The person you chose before reading or the one who popped in your head while reading an idea might be the one you have a crush on ;)
(These ideas might sound stupid to some of you.. the only ones who will be interested are the ones who experienced them!... If you think it's stupid then you've got your answer: No you don't have a love feeling which you don't know about!)
Love can trick you, play games with your mind and heart..
So if you feel like you don't care about someone but some of these things happen to you, then you're wrong.. You have some hidden feelings!
So just go and look into their eyes after reading this page and you'll have a really strange feeling!
What are you still waiting for?.. Who knows? They might be waiting for you!
Goodluck! ! !
Love Reflection
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