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I'm kinda disappointed in a friend of mine. (Let's call her "L.") She's intelligent and very pretty, and she supposedly sets high standards when it comes to men -- yet the guys she dates are all losers and generally liars. I don't get it.
I've said that she needs to set her standards high, yet somehow, she keeps picking losers. Her sister has observed the same thing -- how L says she wants one thing in guys, yet she keeps picking the opposite. There's this fella that she nearly married, for example. She keeps commenting on men's grooming and attire, yet she almost married a fella who dressed like a schlub and who looked like he never washed his hair. He wasn't very impressive in other ways either, and I could tell that he wasn't very honest with her. She was way out of his league, to say the least.
I can't help but wonder if maybe she deliberately picks guys who are way beneath her, so that they'll look up to her.
It's been said that women tend to pick men who are like their fathers, for better or worse. I do know that she thinks her father wasn't a very nice man. Maybe that has influence her choices.
She keeps picking guys who are arrogant and/or real jerks. It's ridiculous. It's like she keeps expecting them to change for her. Well, good luck with that. That kind of change is seldom genuine.
As I've said, she's really pretty. She has a lot of guys who would go for her. Why does she keep picking these unpleasant, unsavory characters? These guys are good at putting up facades for her, and she should know better than to fall for them.
Would I date her? No, I don't think she's good dating material, precisely for these reasons. Still, I do wish that she'd shape up so that she can avoid making a mistake that she'll regret for the rest of her life.
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