Unattached In Calgary, Alberta, Canada



Here we go again. Once more among my American “sisters”, I seem to be the lone Canadian swan migrating in a foreign land. Once more, unto the breach, dear friends, without fear and always with hope, perhaps my soul mate will discover me here.

Here are my statistics, dear gentlemen. I'm 51 years young and absolutely Taurean female in every possible way. In height, I am 5'7"tall and in stature, getting to the point, I’m a chubby gal whom will never achieve that elusive “model-type” figure. I have long, fine, blonde hair that I cheat age with colour rinse (who doesn’t). On special days when my emotions are all positive, you will stare in to a pair of effervescent blue eyes that will simply captivate you.

Personality ? I ooze personality. I'm a lady "first" in all respects whom appreciates the same qualities in a gentleman.You can swoon me with compliments while, in contrast, I am as quick tempered with rudeness. I’m a strong, extrovert type with a vivacious and unique laugh, because I adore laughter in all forms. However, again in contrast, as an educated woman, in knowledge and life, I cannot be had by some silver-tongued devil full of himself with a bag full of empty promises.
I'm a woman whom used to be transsexual 3 years ago until surgery corrected and removed obvious male abnormalities. What I am NOT is she-male. I abhor that word.

My interests include as much activity as my career will allow me the freedom to enjoy. From high heals to hiking boots, my passions range from well-dressed city entertainment venues to travelling, hiking, fishing, and camping throughout the majesty of Alberta's Rocky Mountains.

Professionally? Educated with a Bachelor's degree in Commerce, Certified for public accounting and tax management, 27 year career woman, owner of a successfully established public practice in the City of Calgary for over 12 years. I sat back and helplessly watched the greatest “crash and burn” of my professional career when I entered transition back in 1991. Moving forward from that point seemed insurmountable. Twelve years later, my career, unfettered by the dual life most of us have to burden, I am at my peek of success and looking forward to semi-retirement. Because I live in the heart of red-necked Alberta, Canada, my life, professionally and personally save for those souls precious to my heart is life I live in absolute stealth. I am no marching transsexual warrior. I leave that for those younger than I with much more energy.

In life, in general, life has been good to me. I am one of the few and the fortunate who has had a transitional career. I am the first to admit that… while at the same time, I make no apologies for my educational choices. However, like most of us whom travel this path, love always and endlessly is elusive. I would love to remedy this void once and for all. I’ve given of myself all my life with no regrets (well….some) and it would fit nicely in my life to be mutually given to in return and create much needed balance.

It is my hope to meet a true gentleman who is sensitive, well-mannered, as well as a stimulating and romantic conversationalist. This gentleman is a non-smoker, with similar tastes, values, and aspirations ranging in age from 45 to 68 years young, single and unattached. My ideal man is articulate and not afraid to express his passions and show me his feelings. He knows I wish to learn as much about him as he wishes to know about me. Together, I am hoping our growing love will create and enjoy a wonderful relationship between two spirits who were destined to be together.

Ideally, we should both be significantly close enough geographically to make a physical relationship possible. In the real world, unlimited travel budgets rarely exist. I’ve been through enough internet flirting to last me 2 lifetimes. I am only interested in hearing from a man whose life exists in the real world, genuinely serious about real telephone conversations, real meetings, and interactions, has a grasp of the "Big Picture", and looking for his ideal mate to build a real life experience. The adventure begins once we have found each other.

So there you have it…practically my whole life story. I would love to be surprised with stimulating mail from a gentleman with solid life experiences, accomplishments, and expectations…..a man who is not afraid to give up as much information about himself as I have given forth here.

For now, all my sincere hopes for our mutual discovery.


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