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How to Turn Friends to Lovers?
I am probably a BIG fan of romantic relationship that evolves out of deep closeness and yours would be no exception. That being said, there's a risk to crossing over from friendship to romantic couple. For one thing, your squeeze may not need the closeness to change. She may love you like a friend, but not have feelings that run deeper. Another potential difficulty with crossing over, is that should the romantic relationship end, the friendship also ends because the discomfort of losing the romance cannot bear going back to how things used to be between the 2 of you. Eventually, some couples make great friends and lousy lovers.
One advantage is that you both already know the good, the bad and the ugly about each other. This level of acknowledgment and trust makes taking the risk worth it! Another benefit of beginning a romance based on having a solid friendship is that you also have a solid foundation from which to build. I'm assuming by your question that this has not happened yet.
A love worth experiencing is a love worth a risk. To me this means taking a blind leap and get out of the friend zone. To discover if your girl is interested in taking the friendship to a higher level you're going to must ask her. A trip would give you the added advantage, should a romance be on the horizon, of making a chance to become more than friends and move the friendship to intimacy.
As she agrees to your points and findings, you can take the most important risk and tell her how much you appreciate her in your life, how you've come to realize she's the right girl, and you want to pursue these sensations. Her reply will tell you all that you need to grasp to determine if the fellowship is ready to head off to a higher level.
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