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The truth is that as far as God is concerned you are Holy in his sight — you are forever perfect in his sight,and you can’t get any more reassurance than that can you, there is only one problem here ,you have to choose to believe what God said or choose not to believe it. the choice is only yours and yours alone , Jesus did everything for you to remove your guilt, it is up to you to accept this as pure fact from a God that never lies.
You give God no glory by believing the Devils lies and deceits.
God has forgiven you, now "you" must do the same. Ask God to remove from you the effects of your guilt and to fill you with his light as you read and study his word.As truth enters then the effects of guilt must be removed by his light.
DECIDE NOW TO FORGIVE YOURSELF. Just look in the mirror into your very own eyes and speak to the person within, and say to them.[first name] I forgive you for all your past sins, faults, and past failures and I release you from satans lies and deceptions. I forgive you.I forgive myself now today in Jesus name amen.
CHAPTER 7 UNREAL GUILT.
Some people suffer the effects of “unreal guilt.”Caused by someone either doing something on them, or someone dying or some other ways. Not something you done yourself.
A child who is abused will suffer the effects of unreal guilt, and this will continue into adult life. tormenting them. An adult who abuses a little child will usually tell them “its your fault you made me do this.”Or use words to this effect. putting the blame on the child , and those effects of unreal guilt remains with that person for life unless removed.
It wont matter how often you tell them its not your fault , the guilt has been placed there and needs Gods power to remove it.
And the way to remove it is like this.
Pray and ask Jesus to come help you do this meditation.
Using your imagination, See all this unreal guilt lying on the ground before you in a big pile, just a shape, a form of some sort, Ask Jesus to come into the picture, see him carrying a large box. ask him to help you gather up all this unreal guilt, and put it into the box he brought with him. See him tie up the box after all has been placed inside it, and then hear him ask you. “Where do you want me to take it?”
Tell him to take it to the person /people that hurt and abused you..Then see him go and place the box in the hands of your abuser/abusers. placing the responsibility right where it belongs.Hear him say. "This belongs to you," not to [your-name]
If more than one abused you-It may be necessary to do this more than once,or until all feelings of Unreal guilt leaves you.
Every thing that holds you in bondage is a chain around your neck and God never intended you to have chains around your neck weighing you down.
Using these simple meditations can truly set you free, and remove the chains of guilt.
God uses the Imagination, to heal through I have seen hundreds healed through these type of meditations.
DEATH
Another source of unreal guilt is, death.Whether that death is a cot death, accidental death, or death by natural causes. all of these can cause people to have feelings of unreal guilt.
Many a mother or father blame themselves for a cot death, they feel that if they had done this or that the child might have lived , If only they had noticed something wrong!
This is "unreal" guilt. To Heal the death of a loved one do the following meditation.
Again Using the Imagination.=See yourself in a nice comfortable room.See the door in that room open and in walks Jesus. See him come over to you and put his arms around you,sense his love and compassion,as he understands how you feel at your loss, because he himself lost his own earthly father,Joseph.
Hear him say to you “I want to bring your, child,/ father / mother.whoever died, into this room, so you can say goodbye,Tell them you love them, ask for forgiveness if needed,one last time.See the room door open, and see an angel bring your loved one into the room,Feel Jesus arm still around you as he becons the angel and your loved one to come over to you both. Jesus tells you there is no death, all are alive in me.See the angel hand over your child / loved one to Jesus.
Jesus then presents your loved one to you.If its a baby ,feel yourself holding it, tell them, you love him /her.ask for forgiveness if they weren’t loved or wanted.[If miscarried or stillborn or aborted give the child a name.] —-Now hand the child back to Jesus, tell him Lord I commit this child to your love and care. See him smile at the child then hand it over to the angel who leaves the room. Feel the peace in your heart as you had your chance to love your child. through Jesus;
If its an adult,= see the angel hold their hand as they enter the room. see them smile at you as they are so pleased to see you again,and with Jesus.See them walk over to Jesus and you, see Jesus greet them with a loving kiss, and then he presents them to you.See yourself hugging them.
Tell them all you need to tell them ,things that you maybe never had the chance to say, on this earth.Ask for forgiveness if needed and forgive them also for any thing they may have done on you.Now present them back to Jesus, as he sends them out with the angel, say your goodbyes, and commit them to Jesus.Feel the peace of Jesus fill your heart up Jesus, says to you, “everything will be all right.”
Now say goodbye to Jesus, see him leave by the door.Feel the quietness and peace his presence holds, even after he’s gone, now you leave the room. and close the door behind you leaving all the past behind in that locked room which holds the peace of Jesus.
A WARNING TO YOU, NEVER EVER DO THIS MEDITATION WITHOUT JESUS PRESENT WITH YOU, as it is forbidden to try and contact the dead. you are not contacting the dead,but through Jesus we comunitate our loss, he is both with us and with them. We can be healed from the loss of a loved one through meditive imagination.Jesus makes the imagination real.
Those who “died in Jesus” are “alive in him also.”so always make sure that you ask Jesus to do this with you.NEVER EVER do this without Jesus.
Never try and do any kind of meditation without Jesus being there. This is a spiritual healing your receiving, from God through Jesus.
Always come with and to Jesus for Healing men or women can not heal Only Jesus can heal.
God,has freed you from the chains that bind you, chains of guilt and shame. His mercy outweighs every sin that you could commit no matter how grave that sin could be. What he did for David, who committed murder ,adultery. deceit, lied.cheated, he did also for you.He ALSO forgave you.
Write out scriptures that tell you what Jesus done for you at the end of this book and read them every day, confess them out, speak them don't think them in to yourself, speak them audibly, your spirit need to hear the word of God.
Faith comes by hearing the word of God.
Chapter-8 The guilt of separation / Divorce
When a partner cheats on the other partner,the pain is unbearable,the effect on the hurting partner is crushing, because it wasn't only the fact that they cheated on them, they destroyed them as a person, in their own esteem. They took away their self worth,self respect, and self image.They left their partner shattered, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, psychically and sexually.The damage caused to someone who’s husband or wife cheated on them,goes deep into the spirit causing feelings of rejection, and rejection is a difficult feeling to remove.It becomes rooted into the soul.But it can be healed through Jesus.
Jesus knows the feelings of betrayal with a kiss,Judas did it to him.
Your partner betrayed you with a kiss also.
When you were betrayed,you were left with all kinds of feelings,bewilderment,shock,pain rejection,trauma,a feeling of being stupid why did you not notice things were going on? Some people go into wrong thinking blaming themselves.
If I had been a better wife/husband, if I had been a better lover, if I had paid them more attention.
“If you had laid down your life for them it would not have made any difference because the simple fact is they were only thinking of one person=themselves;”
They were following the age old demon called lust,all they cared about was themselves and what they wanted, your pain never came into it, the harm they would cause you never crossed their mind.The damage, they inflicted would never even enter their thoughts, they have been well and truly hooked by lust, and lusts companions are selfishness, thoughtless, self preservation; I know because I have been there and inflicted those things on Rose my wife.
No man or woman will ever be able to tell me it wasn’t lust that motivated them to leave the woman / man they loved originally.
When first we married we are deeply in love,and that love was supposed to be for life.
Unfortunately, we live in a world dominated by sex, every thing you see on T.V. even the adds are sexual, even to eating a bar of chocolate. Sex is sold as a commodity,and men and woman give in to it and buy it.
God intended sex to be combined with love and faithfulness, and honouring your partner, and not to be given away to someone else.So no matter What you think,nothing would have stopped your partner from betraying you except themselves. "They" were the one who started looking around, not you.
I have prayed with beautiful women.They were giving all they could to their men ,and still their husbands cheated on them. So it has nothing to do with looks or their sexually, it has to do with plain facts their men were drawn by lust and they were the ones who done wrong, not their wives.
Nothing you could have ever done, could have stopped a man or woman, once they start giving into fantasies with another person.I know this to be true.
But you carry with "you" feelings of unreal guilt, those horrible words “if only.”But now you have the power here to do something about those feelings left on you,even years and years later.
FIRST-You must forgive yourself, if “you” believe or think that you didn't give it your all.
We can’t change the past. And we must move on, not remain stuck in it.Forgiveness is a decision not a feeling, or emotion; Say Lord “I forgive myself for any way I didn't give my marriage partner my all. I now loose myself from all bondage I have held myself in. I set my ex partner free for you to deal with them in your own good time, and I forgive them for all the hurt they caused me. I cut all spiritual and soul ties between me and my former partner.
secondly.=I cast off of me those feelings of unreal guilt, and I send those feelings through you Jesus back to where they truly belong with my ex Partner.
Using the Imagination again, see Jesus collect all the spiritual rubbish of unreal guilt all that you carried in a large black bag on your back. See Jesus remove from your back that weight ,feel the weight being removed from you,see him place it on the ground in front of you.
Hear him ask “what do you want me to do with it?” You have a choice to make here, you can either say, “take it to my ex partner and leave all the guilt with them” Or you can tell him to “take it away and burn it in the fire of your love.”
The choice is entirely yours.
Ask Jesus to fill the void where this bag of rubbish had been with his light and lightness.
And peace.
Those whom the Lord has set free remain that way,refuse to accept thoughts of unreal guilt.
Remind Satan the tormentor that Jesus took your burdens away from you.and keep reminding him each time he calls, trying to put you down.
You are a beautiful person made in the Image and likeness of God your creator, see yourself as Jesus sees you,Holy,spotless, perfect in his sight, totally loveable.
Look into your eyes, in the mirror everyday and say aloud, “I am a worth while person in Jesus, I am loveable, I am likeable I am worth everything.I am beautiful and I love me."
THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN.
If you were the partner who betrayed, and you belong to God now. “You can do a lot to help your Ex partner find freedom and peace, and also yourself.
what I would "suggest" you could do is. Send them a letter. telling them that it was all “your fault”, you were the one who done the wrong, not them. they were everything that anyone could ever ask for. That is was yourself alone who done the wrong. In that way you could help to rebuild "their self confidence" again restoring their dignity. and you would be acting as a true child of God.
Whatever you set free on this earth is set free in Heaven.you will be setting another child of God free from a heavy burden.And the measure you give will be the measure that will be given to you by God.
You will also be setting your self free,from your own guilt.
Mental Illness and unreal guilt.
A person who has suffered a breakdown,lives in guilt. Some feel guilty about the breakdown then feel guilty that they didn't stop it happening. The reality is you didn’t have any control over your breakdown,because your mind was overloaded and shut down because it could not cope any longer.
This is a reality that you must come to terms with “you were ill just like someone who has cancer,”mental illness is a sickness of the mind ,cancer is a sickness of the body.You must see your self as having an illness same as someone with cancer.
Guilt is then put on you,by people who people tell you , “pull yourself together, catch your self on.”
They haven't a clue what you feel Inside.
Pain is hard to cope with.If your pain is from a broken leg, all can see it, it is visible, and can be treated with pain killers. If your pain is in your mind, no one can see it ,it is not visible and pain killers do not take away the pain.If you told me you had a sore back or sore head, I would have to take your word on it because I could not feel your sore head or back,if someone says they are under severe depression, you can not feel their depression. you have to take their word for it same as taking the word of the person who has a sore back or head.—Pain is Pain whether in the head or in the mind,it is real and painful. that pain is real for you or for me. there is no difference between them each has their own equal value;Someone whose leg is broken, is no more in pain than someone whose mind is ill, each are of equal value to that person.Because someone has a breakdown through depression, they tend to take on unreal guilt that it was their fault, and people tend to make them feel like it was as well.You couldn't stop the pressure building any more than the person who broke their leg could stop that either. unreal guilt.is what you suffer and has to be stopped. “I am ill,” “ I am unwell,”just the same as someone who has cancer or some other
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