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and yet to share a problem of a sexual nature, is practically beyond thinking about.People don't have a problem telling the most filthy stories or jokes to a wide audience not even caring who hears them, but they would never tell you even one of their sexual sins. double standards are constantly used.
Wrongful sex makes us prisoners to guilt and shame.Jesus condemns the sin never the sinner.and tells us to “do as I have done,” condemn the sin not But not the sinner.
CHAPTER-3 Let God be the Judge.
If you are living with another person ,not your husband or wife, you need Jesus mercy and forgiveness.not condemnation. Only you and God know your life story, as to why you are in this position. Jesus came to save you right where you are. He comes looking for us right in the thick of our sinfulness. He comes offering you life eternal,He comes offering you Himself, he comes offering you His Holy Spirit. and He comes right now and says, “take me as your lord and saviour into your heart accept my gift of forgivness for your sins,and you shall live eternally with me.”
This is what the gospel is all about! telling the good news of salvation through forgivness of sins.
What I have written may have offended you and your way of thinking,you may be saying that is not scriptural, it is.
Good news to a hungry person is a good meal.
Good news to a poor person is money.
Good news to a sinner is forgiveness.
A little note for you== the scriptures that say do not commit adultery, also say "wives obey your husbands love them care for them and cherish them." also say “Husbands love your wives treat them as you would your own body caring for it lovingly.”
How many Husbands care for their wives as much as he cares for himself? How many wives obey their husbands in the way God commanded them? Are you living as God's word tells you to?
If we were to truly sum it all up, not too many these days obey God's word except to use it to condemn others.
You see theres more to Gods word than you think and as each day goes on the more I study on mercy and forgiveness the more I see God’s mercy winning out over His judgement.—James-2-13
If Husbands or Wives acted in the way that Jesus told us to then they would be less divorce.
As Christians, our job is to tell the Good News not judge or condemn. We are to tell sinners that Jesus loves them unconditionally. We tell people, and let God do any judging that needs to be done
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CHAPTER-4 CUTTING THE CORDS THAT BIND
How can I be freed from these feelings of guilt? If you have sinned with another person sexually, then believe it or not you are spiritually bound to that person still, there is a soul tie {A SPIRITUAL CORD}connecting you and that person together.
1-Corinthians-6-16—If you give your self to a prostitute, she becomes "a part of you," and "you become a part of her."
There is a spiritual cord connecting you to her,permenant or until that cord is cut spiritually. you can not see it, but believe me it exists, I know from experience.
I could not shift the feelings of guilt, after I had an affair twenty years ago,I was sorry, repentant,remorseful and deeply regretted it, but the feelings of guilt just wouldn’t lift.I would find a little happiness for a while ,then the guilt of what I done came over me and happiness disappeared.I lived like this for years, I knew Jesus forgave me, I had enough proof,but guilt just wouldn’t go away until I studied this scripture.If you give yourself to another person, then you and that person became one.What was happening was I was soul tied to this person, and I only got free when the lord taught me how.
We have to cut the spiritual cord connecting us to the other person or persons, if more than one.To do that is easy, all you have to do is.
ASK Jesus to help you use your imagination and to be in it there with you.
Imagine the person you sinned with standing there and see Jesus there also.See Jesus holding the sword of the spirit in his hand.
“See a spiritual cord connecting you to the other person or persons, see the cord connect to different parts of your body,and to theirs.”Mind, eyes,hands,sexual organs and feet.
See the cord that first of all connects to your mind and theirs.[this is because of your thinking of them] Ask Jesus to cut that cord with the sword of the Spirit, and to "seal each end up with light," so that they can never be reconnected. Now see Jesus do that,in your mind.
[even though you use your imagination this will happen spiritually. because Jesus will honour your desire to be free]
Next see a cord connected from your eye’s to theirs. [you were connected through the eye’s by looking at each other. That's where it first began , by a look.]Now see Jesus cut that cord in the same way.Always ask for that cord to be sealed with light, after he cuts.
See a cord connect from your mouth to theirs.[the mouth was used to kiss and to talk, so much pain was caused this way.]See Jesus cut that cord, and ask that the cord be sealed with light
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Now see a cord connected from your hands to their hands.[ The hands were used to touch parts of the body.]Have Jesus cut the cords, sealing the ends with light.Always seal those cord ends with light.
See a cord connected from your sexual organs to theirs.[This is where you first became spiritually soul tied to them.]See Jesus cut the cords, and sealing those cords with light. This is VERY IMPORTANT, and should not be forgotten.
See a cord connected from your feet to theirs.[you and they walked willingly into sin] see Jesus cutting the cords and sealing both ends with light.
Finish off by, using “the Word of God,”and say “Jesus you said whatever “I” bind on earth is bound in Heaven.” [Matt-16-19]You also said “whatever I set free on earth is set free in Heaven”I now set myself free from all the soul ties that bound me up, in Jesus name, I release myself and those to whom I was tied to.
Matthew -16-19-Whatever “you” bind on earth will be bound in Heaven ,whatever “you” loose on earth will be loosed in Heaven. You can see from this scripture that it is YOU that binds and loose. Whatever YOU bind! Whatever YOU loose!—You bound yourself to another person, whether you were married or not does not matter, if you have sex with someone apart from a Husband or Wife you become bound up, you become one with them
spiritually. Gods word not mine.
For anyone involved in the healing ministry This loosing meditation can be used with great effect, when praying with people. You can lead people through it lovingly and gently never critizing or condemning. “There but for the grace of God go I.”
CHAPTER-5 Guilt covers many areas.
IF you lived in Northern Ireland or any other country at war. There is the possibility that you may have been involved in killings, or beatings, or bombing.And the guilt from that just wont go away.You can never bring someone back from the dead if you killed them.
But you can repent and be forgiven, you could also spend time praying for the family of the dead person,asking God to send a blessing on them, asking him to turn this to good for them in some way.
Romans-8-28 God turns to good what was meant for evil.
So instead of living in guilt all your life you can do something about it.My advice is to take some very precious time out with God and sincerely ask him To heal that family from the trauma and shock first, then ask him to heal the loss of the Father/ Mother/ Son/ Daughter/ Relative.Who ever died.And to fill up their hearts with love, in the area that is empty, also to fill the gap of loneliness with His own presence. I would recommend that you decide to set a certain special time out for that, until you sense that the lord is happy enough with that, then pray no more about it.
You are not the only one who has killed someone either by accident, or by design.Lets look at scripture and see in the book of.
2-Samuel-11- And 12— What the story basiclay is —king David seen a married woman he wanted sexually.He had sex with her when her Husband was at battle.He left her pregnant, then tried to get the husband to sleep with his wife but he wouldn’t. So David plotted to have him killed, and he was. Along with some other soldiers, who were sent into battle to die with him unknowingly.
David had quite a few sins against him.
First he lusted after Bath-Sheba.Then he committed adultery. then he deceived Uriah.He betrayed his friend.He tried to cover up his sin.Then he had him killed by putting him right into the middle of the battle where he had no chance of survival.He was also responsible for the death of those other soldiers whom he deliberately sent with Uriah.
When David was confronted by God he repented, asked for forgiveness, and was given it.
God forgave him and then continued to bless him again.Forgiveness is what God is all about no matter what you done, or are doing, and cant seem to stop,& there seems no way out.
God is love and love forgives every thing done against it, Jesus died for your sins, for “YOUR SINS,”—not because of your "GOODNESS".
If God could forgive David for all those sins the continue to bless him, surely he could forgive you also, he is the God of Mercy and forgiveness.
The problem is not that God wont forgive you ,it is that “YOU” wont forgive “YOU.”
Now how do I deal with that?It can only come about in one way. “You” must start to believe God and what he says in His word.
CHAPTER-6 LEARNING TO FORGIVE YOURSELF.
Forgiveness is a decision not a FEELING.If we depended on feelings to forgive we would never forgive. but praise God forgiveness is a DECISION and not a feeling.Feelings are emotions. A decision overides your emotions.
Example= who "FEELS" like getting up early for work, but we make a "DECISION" to get up. [Fact]
Getting to know that I am forgiven not just for “small”sins but for “larger” ones as well. as I have said before sin is sin there is no size set by God but you probably will continue to think there is until you realise that this is not true. It is a lie told to you by Satan your arch enemy.
And can only be overcome by studying and believing the Word of God.
Do you understand what that means? The word of God means,
that “God gave His Word,” on something. “I give you my word that I will forgive you.” If a friend gave their word to you -you would believe them, and accept it as gospel.
Romans-3-23— Yes all have sinned; all fall short of God’s glorious ideal;Yet now God declares us “NOT GUILTY ” of offending him if we trust in Christ Jesus, who in his kindness freely takes away our sins.For God sent Christ Jesus to take the punishment for “OUR SINS” and to end all God’s anger against us.
Romans-3-26—But isn’t this unfair for God to let criminals go free and say they are innocent? No!for he does it on the basis of their trust in Jesus who took away their sins.
Read these two scriptures over and over again, until you see what they’re saying to you."All" have sinned ==That means there is no one in this world that has not sinned, God says “all” and all means just that, so you are not alone in sinning, “all have sinned;”
Yet "now" God declares you “not guilty” of offending him
Who's it that is declaring you not guilty of offending him?=God— And who is it that sin offends=God—So if he says your “not guilty,” then your “not guilty,” it is as simple as that.
You may be one of those people that think, that was for the people in the Bible only, not for me.You are wrong because god said “all have sinned,” he didn't say only the people in the Bible have sinned. No! he said “ALL HAVE SINNED.” every single One.Past, present, and still yet to be born.
Romans-3-22—”Now”God says he will accept and acquit us and declare “us” - “NOT GUILTY”—if we trust Jesus to take away our sins.
You see you are declared not guilty if you trust Jesus to take away your sins.—How “you” can remove the "feelings" of guilt from you is by learning the truth about Jesus and what he done for you by dying on that cross on Calvary.He paid for every sin that you would ever commit in your entire lifetime, and he paid for everyone else’s too.
Satan is the one who has you bound up in guilt because he has kept you in ignorance of the truth of Jesus. and as scripture says “The truth will set you free.”-John-8-32.
Truth sets the captive free, from guilt, from the threat of punishment, from spiritual death.
"Now God says" Romans 3-22
NOW-When is now?=This very moment, now is now.not tomorrow or yesterday but "NOW."[the Bible is the "living word" of God.It is not past or future, it is the "Now word" ,the present. As you read it, it is alive,It is the living word of God, “Heaven and earth shall pass away but my words will never pass away”-Matthew-24-35.
Mark-13-31. and Luke- 21-33. God is reinforcing his word as he declares it three times, in these three scriptures.In the same way he reassured Peter three times that he forgave him after Peter denied him three times. Peter denied Jesus we all know but most people don’t realise that Jesus healed Peter from his guilt
John-21-15-”Simon son of John do you love me more than these others?” - “Yes Peter replied, you know I am your friend.”—Then feed my lambs,Jesus told him.
Jesus repeated the question. “Simon son of John do you really love me?”— “Yes lord,Peter said.you know I am your friend,” — “Then take care of my sheep,”Jesus said.
Once more he asked him, “Simon son of John, are you even my friend?”—Peter was grieved at the way Jesus asked the question this third time, — “Lord you know my heart;you know I am,”he said.—Jesus said “Then feed my little sheep.”
Three times Peter denied Jesus, then ran away in guilt, He couldn’t face Jesus after looking into his eye’s,just after he denied him the third time. Jesus had heard Peter deny him and when he had done so the third time ,Jesus turned and looked at him. and Peter ran away filled with guilt. Jesus was put to death before Peter could make it right again.But Jesus knew the torment that was in Peters heart, so he removed that torment by asking him to reaffirm his love for him three times .Then to put the cap on it ,he made Peter the head of his church. He honoured in public the very man who denied him in public;
He removed the effect of guilt from Peter, through love and forgiveness and mercy.
You also have been forgiven by Jesus and been raised to a heavenly Dignity and state of being-Romans-8-30.
God has raised us up into heavenly places seated with him there If you read your Bible you will come across many scriptures that tell you what Jesus done for you.He didn’t just forgive you your sins ,he also made you “Forever perfect in his sight,”Hebrews -10-14-, He sees you as” holy in his sight, without a single fault.”Ephesians -1-4
The truth is that as far as God is con
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