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GOOD HELP IN OVERCOMING LOW SELF ESTEEM
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Blacks and All People Can Succeed! This Web Page’s Sole Purpose Is Elevate All Above Dysfunctional Situations. A situation is Dysfunctional when it opposes its designed purpose. If you go to a hamburger restaurant, you expect to be treated respectfully and served hamburgers. You would consider it “dysfunctional” (inappropriate) to be disrespected and served Spam. Functionalism and Respect Go Hand And Hand.
Does God Care About And Respect You And Me? If God Does Care, Why Is Life Often Filled With Problems, Dissatisfactions, And Struggles? Why Can’t We Find Fulfillment, Happiness, Completeness, And Accomplishment? Why Does Life Seem Like A Never Ending Struggle Of Drama? Why Does It Seem Like God Is Not There, Or That He Doesn’t Care?
Let's walk together to examine why millions (if not more) of humans feel that way. Let me also tell you why I established this web page that you are presently viewing.
The purpose of this web page is to help anyone over come Low Self Esteem (or anyone who feels that God does not care about them). Much of this information is directed toward anyone affected by racial prejudice. HOWEVER, THE ADVICE ON THIS WEBPAGE IS ALSO DIRECTED TO ANYONE WHO MAY HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM. Low Self Esteem is when you or I don’t feel we deserve “good things”. We don’t expect to be respected. We can’t relate to “nice” situations. We expect to be misjudged or treated unfairly (differently). A pessimist is a person who focuses on the “bad”, undesirable, or “dark” side. A person who focuses on weak points, failures, or other “let downs” is suffering from esteem issues. Let’s examine how we can address esteem issues.
Anyone, regardless of race, color, gender, or ethnic background can review this web page and gain insight, and empathy into this situation. Applying this time-proven advice can lead to deeper success and happiness in life.
It is a fact that “Murphy’s Law” seems ever present in our daily lives. Murphy ’s Law states that: “anything that can go wrong will go wrong”. Of course this is not 100 percent true. Yet it is true. Thus, the first thing we must do is “expect the worse while we prepare for the best”. Why should we prepare for the best? I will answer a question with a question. Why would we ever settle for less? There is one primary reason why people do not strive or prepare for the best. That primary reason is Low Self Esteem. Our world and media focuses on “Murphy’s Law Mentality”. We don’t see the point in excelling. Bad things always happen. Other people will talk about us if we reach for “higher ground”. It’s easier to just “deal with the real”, and we won’t get our emotions hurt. We just don’t believe that optimistic (positive) thoughts and actions will really change anything in our life.
A second reason why many do not strive for the Best is Laziness. Negative Energy (“darkness”, “Satan”, “human nature”) attacks us daily and non-stop. It takes a lot of personal positive energy to deal with and overcome negativity (Murphy’s Law). A third reason why many do not strive for themselves is “Life’s Woes”. “Murphy’s Law” has always “stuck it to them”, so now they don’t hope or excel. This type of person is a pessimistic. They feel that they’ve tried and their attempts were not appreciated or successful. So from “now on”, they just won’t care or try hard.
To be honest with you, Laziness and Negative Thinking are both kin to Low Self Esteem. Let’s examine Negative Thinking. Yes, the physical world we live in has a lot of undesirable things in it. And yes, a person may have nothing to do with “bad things” and still suffer or die prematurely. The only way we can combat this negative reasoning is to realize that life is a gift and a privilege. We also must realize that there are hundreds of thousands of locations on earth. It some times takes a “getting away” to help us realize life’s opportunities for us. “Getting away” does not have to cost a lot of money. “Getting away” can entail a ride away from the negative things you experience. We don’t have to be around the same people and situations constantly. Strive to work, make money, be responsible, save money, protect yourself, and use earnings to “get away” (sometimes). Always attempt to “get away” from avoidable negative situations and protect yourself.
A rule of thumb is to: Avoid Negative Events whenever possible. An example of this is Victims of Abuse. The first step a victim can take is seeking assistance to stop the abuse. We live in an age where reporting problems is frowned upon (some call that “snitching”). If we are to improve our Self Esteem and maintain it, we must minimize the negative things in our lives. Local Government offers aid and programs for those needing such assistance. Our first step in raising our esteem is to progressively remove Negative situations from our lives. NEVER EVER LET SOMEONE’S OPINION OR ACTIONS STOP YOU FROM IMPROVING YOURSELF.
Laziness and poverty often go hand in hand. “Fast Money” is the way of today. Yet, a “hustler” must “be on the grind (working)” if he or she is to “stay paid”. Some people look for friends, relatives, government, religion, and any body else to “pay their way”. A key rule to remember is, “one should be working in an attempt to improve and secure their own”. In other words, if a person were not working (with out good cause), but “collecting” finances elsewhere, then that would be laziness. One might ask, “If the bills are paid, what difference does it make”. The answer is this; Laziness is a trait that spreads apathy and inactivity in ones self and others around them. Always seek to be your own person, with your own possessions, and responsibilities. A responsible person imitates God the Rock (Deuteronomy 32:4).
The “Spirit of Optimism” works best with Sources that are active, thinking, planning, hopeful, ect. Laziness is generally accompanied by negativism, excuses, and “darkness”. We may remember the 1980’s song about a “Sugar Daddy” who found his “girl friend” walking in the rain with some one else. This “gold digging” girlfriend appeared not to have a job and was only out for herself. That negativism and apathy led to her getting “busted” and thrown out. The same is true with employment. We may find tons of ways to get out of work and “pass the buck”, but the day may come when the truth is revealed about our “sloth hands”.
There really is no reason why any one should have Low Self Esteem. We are all children of God, and the world is one big place of opportunity. On a personal note, I come from a violent, dysfunctional background. I was associated with many “disturbed” individuals. I also went through my period of disillusionment, negative thinking, anger, and anxiety.
This world wants us to believe that what we see is all there is. This world wants us to doubt “better things” and “indulge in what you see”.
The truth is that much of life is what we make of it and how we respond to the negative things around us.
African Americans (Blacks) and all humans can succeed by: 1) Limiting Internal and External Negativism in our lives, 2) Shunning Laziness/Apathy with daily efforts and increased public appearance, and 3) utilizing help to improve as you also do your part.
Our Modern World has the Internet, Libraries, Schools, and Governmental Offices. These are just some of the places we can go to energize our steps toward success.
Gary Colin is Head Teacher at the Coming Again Ministry (Neptune, New Jersey) and is Author of, "Bible Symbolism What It Means To Your Salvation" (ISBN 1-4241-0152-2). Purchse (Buy) "Bible Symbolism What It Means To Your Salavtion (ISBN 1-4241-0152-2)" By Author Gary Colin http://www.webspawner.com/users/biblesymbolismcolin
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